Monday, October 27, 2008

End Stage Liver Disease Dialysis

IL CORAGGIO DI SPICCARE IL VOLO


U men and women, sometimes desperate, who are yearning for security and aggregation hand you can count on in times of need ... eager to "build relationships" but at the same time afraid of being caught in relationships "stable", if not definitive, because they fear that this condition could lead to charges or voltages that do not want or think they able to withstand and thus can greatly limit their long-awaited freedom .. yes, that, and build relationships. The reports today constantly vacillate between a sweet dream and a horrible nightmare, and no one can never tell when one becomes the other. Almost always, the two events coexist, although at different levels of consciousness.
Today relations are perhaps the most common, acute, sentite e sgradevoli incarnazioni dell’ambivalenza. Rimane però l’unico gioco cui valga la pena di partecipare, nonostante i rischi che comporta. Tendiamo a concentrarci sulle soddisfazioni che si spera le relazioni arrechino proprio perché per qualche verso non sono state ritenute pienamente soddisfacenti; e qualora invece soddisfino appieno, si scopre spesso che il prezzo di tale appagamento è eccessivo e inaccettabile. La complessità è troppo densa, ostica, difficile da sbrogliare da soli.
Un’incapacità di scegliere tra attrazione e repulsione, tra speranze e paure, che si riflette sull’incapacità di agire. Un amore corrisposto è un evento unico ma anche definitivo, che non ammette repliche, does not grant appeals, does not allow exceptions. It is an event in itself, it must start from the beginning, laying bare the superfluity of plots past and the emptiness of any future plot.
We can not experience the same love twice but we can learn from our experience, process and interpret. In every love, there are at least two people, each of which is the great unknown in the equations of the other. Love is a condition in which fear and joy come together in a mixture that does not allow its ingredients to break down. "The satisfaction, individual love, can not be achieved without the ability to love ourselves first, with humility and courage"

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SOLITUDINE AMOROSA? ATTENZIONE ALLA STRATEGIA DELL'ULTIMA SPIAGGIA

T ale strategy comes from the simplistic reasoning that in life you must have a steady partner at all costs.

The reasons for this conviction that triggers often disastrous strategies are many, but among the main reasons
  • Education. Without partners do not create a family and no family has not been realized, so there is no happiness without love. It is inclined to see the partner search as a simplification of the problems of existence.
  • D ebolezza, fear. is thought not to be self-sufficient and the idea of \u200b\u200bhaving a support that helps us in life seems essential.
  • Sex. Who has difficulty in finding a sexual partner thinks that "stop" in a relationship will solve the problem of sex (simplistic reasoning, too).
  • Sex inhibited. There are those who did not develop fully his sexuality and thinks that only in an official report can live their sexuality.
  • private interest. Running from sad and dreary "I'm getting married out of interest" to the more common "I need a man (woman) in my life." Notice the difference on the ground "weakness" in that the lack di autosufficienza può essere inconscia e comunque mai voluta, mentre dove c'è interesse privato la mancanza di autosufficienza è voluta, scelta come strategia esistenziale.
È incredibile come la strategia dell'ultima spiaggia diventi per molti la risposta alla vita.
Se l'adolescente (o l'adulto romantico) sogna il principe azzurro o la bellissima principessa, man mano che i sogni svaniscono ecco che si instaura una nuova strategia: cerchiamo il meno peggio che abbiamo intorno e fermiamolo, ma nel frattempo non smettiamo di cercare e di sognare.

Iniziano allora rapporti che da una (o da entrambe le parti) sono vissuti come "ultima spiaggia": me the (a) hold because I could not find a better deal, but I know that I would like better.
This strategy is very dangerous because it causes harm to themselves, but above the other and are preparing to betray.

Common Strategy

In both couples adopt the strategy of last resort.
The relationship is very loose (see you soon and take the easy excuse of distance that strengthens the relationship, forgetting the wise saying out of sight, out of mind) or falsely close (if you are already married or you live). There is very little affection
, the minimum sex, the report appears cosmetic. Becomes disastrous when there are children because they are the real victims of the relationship of parents who irresponsibly got together.

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Strategy The strategy adopted by only one component the pair, while the other is true love. The report is
still cold, with a dominant and a dominated (the person who really loves). If the couple desperate
(why get together if you already know that the partner does not exceed our examination of existential?) you create the enabling environment, betrayal can be the agenda (as well as forgiveness, because otherwise we would be talking of last resort?), often not only at the end of sex, but as an escape dall'insipidezza of a relationship that is known to be disappointing or as the first test of a change partner.

short, the big question (to be done to himself and partner):

The person with whom I am meeting or, if I were any better, do not hesitate to download it?

Who says "I'm not satisfied" and continues the report, can not have a life fully lived.
If he does just to have a sexual counterpart, knows that it is more fair to have reports of one night. If he does
just to have a counterpart existential know which is stronger than learn to live alone while waiting to find a soul mate may be: those who can not live alone, how can we expect others to solve your life? And if both can not live alone? Recall that two lame that you support one another, sooner or later stumble over the same.
If he does out of pity, by convention ("Till death do us part", etc..), Etc. for the children. is more honest to admit you were wrong and try to correct the mistake with the truth that, smart people, can never hurt at all.