U men and women, sometimes desperate, who are yearning for security and aggregation hand you can count on in times of need ... eager to "build relationships" but at the same time afraid of being caught in relationships "stable", if not definitive, because they fear that this condition could lead to charges or voltages that do not want or think they able to withstand and thus can greatly limit their long-awaited freedom .. yes, that, and build relationships. The reports today constantly vacillate between a sweet dream and a horrible nightmare, and no one can never tell when one becomes the other. Almost always, the two events coexist, although at different levels of consciousness.
Today relations are perhaps the most common, acute, sentite e sgradevoli incarnazioni dell’ambivalenza. Rimane però l’unico gioco cui valga la pena di partecipare, nonostante i rischi che comporta. Tendiamo a concentrarci sulle soddisfazioni che si spera le relazioni arrechino proprio perché per qualche verso non sono state ritenute pienamente soddisfacenti; e qualora invece soddisfino appieno, si scopre spesso che il prezzo di tale appagamento è eccessivo e inaccettabile. La complessità è troppo densa, ostica, difficile da sbrogliare da soli.
Un’incapacità di scegliere tra attrazione e repulsione, tra speranze e paure, che si riflette sull’incapacità di agire. Un amore corrisposto è un evento unico ma anche definitivo, che non ammette repliche, does not grant appeals, does not allow exceptions. It is an event in itself, it must start from the beginning, laying bare the superfluity of plots past and the emptiness of any future plot.
We can not experience the same love twice but we can learn from our experience, process and interpret. In every love, there are at least two people, each of which is the great unknown in the equations of the other. Love is a condition in which fear and joy come together in a mixture that does not allow its ingredients to break down. "The satisfaction, individual love, can not be achieved without the ability to love ourselves first, with humility and courage"
partners do not create a family and no family has not been realized, so there is no happiness without love. It is inclined to see the partner search as a simplification of the problems of existence.