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L'AMORE AI TEMPI DELLA CHAT

P otremmo definire l'amore che nasce nelle chat come un amore che nasce fra anime. In una società reale che in tutti i suoi aspetti is based on appearances, on the Internet can be understood as being inside the image we want to communicate to others. The same men
recover his own soul and emotional affection, they show reluctance to in real life, making it clear in the chat. Both the slope
female than in male, the soul has the upper hand in life as opposed to virtual reality. Paradoxically
us in chat shows with greater authenticity than the real life, there is less shame, less inhibitions, it is more themselves, but it is also what you want to be. Back then an analogy with real life, where you always oscillates between being and appearance, with strong predominance of appearance.
the web and in chat rooms looking for affinities, one is confronted with what is believed to be the same from their point of view of interests, emotions and passions.
How many of these similarities that we think we found the other or the other are not, as in real life, projections of our soul?
What happens after the meeting on the web is transformed into a meeting in real life, three possible scenarios:

• if the two souls are revealed in their sincerity on the web, survive the physicality of the encounter. If the physical image disappoint, the agreement established between souls anywhere up to his disappointment and lays the groundwork for a planning report in real life that does not necessarily leads to love.
• if the two souls have not been seriously on the web, has been replaced by the interplay of projections, of appearing to be compared to its soul, you do not survive the encounter real and the enchanted castle of expectation of the meeting crumbles like a sand castle. Not stand the disappointment that the other is not how we wanted it to be. You do not even show that tolerance towards otherness which normally has in real life.
• the third scenario is an encounter with the black soul. In fact, the same soul that appeals may cause pain. In fact, this soul can also be black with all its corollary of perversion, evil, suffering. And this soul black is the most difficult to capture in the chat, is the wolf in sheep's clothing, is the soul that makes us fall in love and then disappoint us terribly. And 'the soul that with a click of the mouse we remove from his contacts. In extreme cases it is the soul of the pervert, the pedophile, the rapist.

We find ourselves on the chat, the next time, not to tell more of a love, but a failure, a betrayal, a bitter disappointment.

Overcoming this?

paying special attention to contacts in chat that are built up during periods of particular fragilità psicologica personale, quale in seguito a separazione, fine di una relazione, lutto e quant'altro.
Diffidando di un'immagine troppo perfetta che l'altro vuol fornire, consapevolmente o no.
Diffidando di un eccessivo entusiasmo che l'altro mostra nei vostri confronti, consapevolmente o meno.
Soprattutto non lasciando trascorrere eccessivo tempo fra l'incontro in chat e quello nella vita reale e nel momento in cui si decide d'incontrarsi chiedere preventivamente, anche se può sembrare poco elegante, i dati anagrafici dell'altro se non sono già stati oggetto di scambio.